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1. | Helpless or isolated |
2. | Scared or concerned |
3. | Tired or sad |
4. | Shocked or overwhelmed |
5. | Angry or resentful |
6. | Confused |
7. | Guilty |
1. | Try conversation starters like ‘I know you haven’t been doing so good recently, is there anything you want to talk about?’, ‘I’m not going to force you to talk, but I’m here if you want to.’, ‘I’ve noticed you’re acting a bit different lately, is everything okay?’ |
2. | Stay calm and try not to panic |
3. | Be non-judgemental |
4. | Take what they say seriously |
5. | Let them know you're there for them |
6. | Offer to help them find support |
1. | Understand some coping strategies for self-harm |
2. | Keep talking and checking in with them |
3. | Remember that you don't always need to find solutions |
4. | Respect how they feel |
5. | Celebrate their successes |
6. | Be supportive if they relapse and hurt themselves again |
7. | Remind them of things that helped them before |
8. | Remind them what you like or love about them |
9. | Keep offering to help them find support |
10. | Remember to put your own wellbeing first |
1. | Don't try to find all the answers |
2. | Don't try to force them into stopping right away |
3. | Don't call their self-harm ‘attention-seeking' |
4. | Don’t focus on the fact they’ve hurt themselves |
5. | Try not to say things like ‘you’ll be alright tomorrow’ |
6. | Don’t make them feel guilty or ashamed |
7. | Don’t tell other people in your class or friendship group |
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