You're not alone in this: Hard adulting truths

Adulting is difficult for most of us (a lot of the time)

You might have to grieve the paths you did not take

None of us are experts in romantic relationships

Life is mainly composed of mundane stuff

It can get lonely sometimes

It's often harder to make friends

Double binds, tradeoffs, hard choices get more common

Every career - even your dream one - comes with drawbacks

It's up to us to craft a life of meaning and fulfilment

There is a lot of unlearning and relearning when it comes to food, money, sex and relationships

There is a quickening of pressure in the late 20's and 30's

Accept the ordinariness of life

There will be layers of loss